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3 Simple Steps to Get Your Life Together

Hey Guys, It’s Christina M. Dukes, “The Success Manifestation Coach”. I am a life coach, a business consultant, a motivational speaker, an author, and a world traveler.

I became a coach because I went through a really rough time in life and I was really beating myself up because of my failures.

Here I was at 33 with a failing business, a failing relationship, and a failing spiritual life. I don’t know how many of you can relate, but some days I just felt like the “bottom was going to drop out”.

That means at any moment I would collapse from the amount of stress I was battling. I say battling, because I never accepted the situation I was in although it was really tough. I had to learn that feeling sorry for myself wouldn’t do. It just made me feel worse. I had to begin to declare a life of victory for myself.

Today I declare victory in any battle or struggle you are having in your life right now. What I have learned is that no matter how successful others consider you are, some people are always feeling like more should be going on in your life.

That person in fact was me. I hadn’t taken time to shake off my old attitude, thinking I wasn’t good enough, experienced enough, pretty enough, skinny enough. But the truth is once I accepted I was a winner, I was an overcomer, did life really change for me.

I want to tell you today you are healthy, you are wealthy, you are abundant, you are victorious, you are an amazing child of God. The truth is that we are both on the same path. The path to purpose, passion, and prosperity.

I want to thank you for taking this journey with me. To help us both move forward on this path of prosperity here are 3 Simple Steps to Help You Get Your Life Together.

1. Get real about what is currently happening in your life right now.

What is the real problem? Being able to understand what is really bothering you in your life or what it is that you really want is essential to assessing where you are today. You can't fix a problem, unless you acknowledge there is a problem. Remember that God says you are a child of an amazing destiny filled with purpose, abundance, overflow, prosperity, and charity. It’s okay if you feel that your life is a hot mess, we can fix the mess, and turn the mess into a message.

2. Write a list of what it is that you really want out of life.

How much money would be most ideal for you to live a comfortable life, provide for your family, and build a legacy that would make God proud? It’s okay to dream big. God puts desires in your heart, because if you are obedient and trust Him and the Angels to help you, there is nothing too big or too hard for God. Remember that if God can create the Heavens and the Earth, the Universe and Man, God can do anything, you just need to ask. By creating a list of what we want in our finances, career, spirituality, social life, education, relationships, passions, and talents we can be clear with God about what it is that we need to fulfill our purpose, be joyful, and most importantly happy.

3. Seek help if you need it.

Whether you talk to a friend about your plans, hire a coach, see a therapist, watch YouTube videos, getting help is one of the most essential goals you can accomplish when on the path to achieve your destiny. Remember when God closes one door he always opens another. Sometimes you will meet people who can help you grow personally and spiritually, help you overcome obstacles, and help you learn major life lessons.

The bottom line is that we were not born to live on the Earth in solitude. God uses people. I can’t tell you how many times I ignored and avoided God on this topic. Me, “Get help! Please get real!” that used to be my attitude. Once I checked my Ego and I realized I couldn’t manifest the destiny God was laying down before me on my own, I needed help.

I needed guidance and coaching from those who had come before me and those who were doing what I wanted to do and those who knew what I needed to know. I strategized my life in that way. Of course I maintained my friendships and personal relationships, but when it came to manifesting my purpose on Earth and achieving every desire of my heart I got very strict about who and what I invested my time in. .

I had to get real. It was just too hard doing it alone. I hired a business coach, a branding strategist, a great graphic designer, and a stylist. Before I knew it I had a team of experts that could advance my purpose here on Earth to the next level.

I hope my 3 Simple Steps To Get Your Life Together were inspiring.

I don’t care where you are right now on your purpose journey, it’s never too late to create a vision of what the next level of your life looks like.

God has given us the power to endure whatever comes our way with a good attitude, so I want you to keep pushing and think bigger when it comes to your life.

If you are ready to take your life to the next level, I invite you to schedule a chat with me.

See you At the Top!

-Christina Dukes xoxo

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